being female

Being female must be an advantage, given that I haven't actively pursued any men yet, 3 weeks into this whole adventure. I just keep getting emails, and "winks." I like the winks a lot, and have started winking back. Unfortunately, the people I've winked back at aren't emailing me! I don't know the social norms at all with this - I'm trying to figure that out - is it wrong to wink back? Is it too passive? Am I supposed to do the emailing? It makes winks a lot less exciting, if it puts the ball squarely in my court.

But winks to date: 32
Email to date: 12

Oh, and I winked at one person entirely of my own accord. That led to nothing. But I haven't even done a search since I first created my profile.